LGBTQI+ Counselling
(Singapore and Online)

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LGBTQI+ -affirmative therapy provides empathetic support to LGBTQI+ individuals. An experienced counsellor can help you to face and overcome mental health, family, relationship, and other challenges.

What is LGBTQI+ Counselling?

LGBT counselling (also known as LGBTQI+ counselling or therapy) is a type of professional counselling that focuses on the mental health needs of lesbian, gay, bisexual and/or transgender individuals. LGBTQI+ therapy typically takes the form of one-on-one psychotherapy sessions between you as an individual client, and a dedicated therapist.


LGBTQI+ therapists are specially trained and qualified to provide counselling for LGBTQI+ -related issues such as sexual orientation, gender identity, and self-acceptance. Their role is to support you in facing the unique challenges that sexual minorities face in a heteronormative world.


Research shows that those in the queer community are more than twice as likely as heterosexual and cisgendered people to develop a mental health disorder during their lifetimes. It can also be more difficult for LGBTQI+ individuals seeking counselling services to get the help they need, compared to heterosexual and cisgender individuals.


At Counseling Perspective, we welcome people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Our team of affirmative counsellors is experienced in providing trauma-informed support and guidance to our LGBTQI+ clients.

To make an appointment,
call/WhatsApp 
+65 9636 8060, email drglenn@counselingperspective.com, or book online to get instant confirmation.

How Do LGBTQI+ Counsellors Help?

People may go to a counseling session for many different reasons. Often, it’s to get help in overcoming a specific issue or set of issues that is negatively impacting their quality of life. Some common examples include:


  • Distressing thoughts that won’t go away
  • Unhealthy behaviours (e.g. smoking, gambling)
  • A fear or phobia (e.g. spiders, flying)
  • Going through a divorce or separation
  • Difficulty relaxing and/or sleeping
  • Loss or illness of a loved one
  • High levels of stress, worry, and/or anger
  • Persistent feelings of sadness


In other cases, a person may be motivated to pursue self-growth, address other current or future concerns, or simply want professional advice on how to improve their overall mental health – similar to someone hiring a personal trainer in order to improve their overall physical health.


Your individual counseling experience may also encompass career counseling, life coaching, and other aspects of personal growth and emotional well-being.

LGBTQI+ therapists are experienced professional counsellors who are qualified to provide psychological services to LGBTQI+ individuals.


Depending on your situation, your LGBTQI+ -affirming therapist may draw on a variety of therapeutic techniques to help you. These may include CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing), and Mindfulness-based approaches for dealing with trauma.


As well as helping you to manage and heal from any mental health issues, your therapist can also support you in dealing with concerns such as:


  • Questioning your sexual orientation and sexual identity
  • Coping with emotional distress caused by gender dysphoria
  • Deciding whether to come out to your family members and friends
  • Navigating family relationships and intimate relationship issues
  • Managing discrimination and social expectations in everyday life

Meet Our LGBTQI+ Counsellors

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To make an appointment, call/WhatsApp us on +65 9636 8060, email us at drglenn@counselingperspective.com, or use the booking button below to get instant confirmation.

To make an appointment, call/WhatsApp us on +65 9636 8060, email us at drglenn@counselingperspective.com, or use the booking button below to get instant confirmation.

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Dr. Glenn Graves

Dr. Glenn is a psychologist and life coach. He specialises in treating mental health issues arising from trauma, which disproportionately affect LGBTQI+ individuals. His other areas of professional focus include family counselling, and relationship counselling for opposite and same-sex couples.

Esther Oon-Bybjerg

Esther is an experienced LGBTQ affirming therapist. She has supported LGBTQ individuals on a transformative journey, fostering personal growth, resilience, and authentic self-expression. Her expertise extends to working with LGBTQ couples, where she helps them strengthen mutual trust, communication and commitment in their relationships.

Emanuela Koch

Emanuela's expertise includes counselling for life transitions, gender identity and questioning, and LGBTQI+ related issues. She has experience working with the expat community and, through her engagement with various local community services, also with the local community.

Lilian Lee-Cutts

Lili holds a Masters in Integrative Counselling from Leeds Beckett University (UK) and a Postgraduate Diploma in Counselling Psychology. She’s known for her warm, accepting, validating and non-judgemental style and works hard to understand the world of each client she sees.



To make an appointment, call/WhatsApp us on +65 9636 8060, email us at drglenn@counselingperspective.com, or use the booking button below to get instant confirmation.

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Other Frequently Asked Questions

What Are LGBT Issues in Mental Health?


LGBTQ people are at higher risk for certain mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, eating disorders, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), substance abuse, low self-esteem, self-harm, and suicidal ideation.


This increased risk stems from the challenges of living in a society where LGBTQ people face systemic discrimination, social stigma, and difficulty in finding acceptance among their family, friends and colleagues. Lacking a social support system can cause feelings of sadness, stress and isolation, which can in turn lead to mental health issues.

Should I Come Out as LGBT?


There isn't a single answer to this question - it's different for everyone. Some LGBT people find that coming out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender is empowering and helps them to feel more comfortable in their own skin. However, others find coming and being out to be difficult and stressful.


The decision of whether or not to come out as LGBT is yours and yours alone. If you do decide to come out, your therapist can help you with aspects such as planning the coming out process, establishing social support networks beforehand, and preparing for the possible reactions of others.

What is Sexual Orientation?


Sexual orientation refers to the predominant sexual and romantic attractions a person has towards others. Sexual orientation is innate to each individual and cannot be changed.


You may be attracted toward the opposite sex or gender (heterosexuality), the same sex or gender (homosexuality), or to both sexes or more than one gender (bisexuality or pansexuality).


You can also feel little to no sexual or romantic attraction towards others (asexuality and aromanticism).

What Is Gender Identity?


Gender identity is the gender which a person sees themselves as. This may or may not be the sex that they were assigned at birth. For example, a person with a female sex assigned at birth may identify as a male.


Gender identity is not the same as sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is about who someone is attracted to. For example, a woman may be attracted to men, women, or both. Someone’s gender identity does not have to do with their sexual orientation.


Gender identity is also different from gender expression. Gender expression is how someone outwardly shows their gender. This could be through clothing, hairstyle, make-up, body language, or voice. Someone’s gender expression does not have to match their gender identity.

What Is Gender Dysphoria?


Gender dysphoria is a condition in which a person experiences anxiety, discomfort or distress because there is a mismatch between their biological sex and their gender identity.


People with gender dysphoria may identify as being the opposite sex to the one they were assigned at birth, or they may identify as being neither male nor female.


Gender dysphoria is not the same as homosexuality – people with gender dysphoria may be attracted to people of either sex. Treatment for gender dysphoria usually involves psychological counselling and, in some cases, hormone therapy or surgery to change the physical appearance to match the person's preferred gender identity.

Other Counseling & Mental Health Services

People may go to a counseling session for many different reasons. Often, it’s to get help in overcoming a specific issue or set of issues that is negatively impacting their quality of life. Some common examples include:


  • Distressing thoughts that won’t go away
  • Unhealthy behaviours (e.g. smoking, gambling)
  • A fear or phobia (e.g. spiders, flying)
  • Going through a divorce or separation
  • Difficulty relaxing and/or sleeping
  • Loss or illness of a loved one
  • High levels of stress, worry, and/or anger
  • Persistent feelings of sadness


In other cases, a person may be motivated to pursue self-growth, address other current or future concerns, or simply want professional advice on how to improve their overall mental health – similar to someone hiring a personal trainer in order to improve their overall physical health.


Your individual counseling experience may also encompass career counseling, life coaching, and other aspects of personal growth and emotional well-being.

Individual pyschotherapy is an empathetic yet evidence-based methodology. Research studies and clinical observations highlight psychotherapy as an effective treatment for reducing the symptoms of moderate depression and anxiety.

Family Counseling

Stress Management

Anxiety Therapy

Find Your Nearest Counselling Centre


We are a private practice with five locations in Singapore where our LGBTQ clients can attend in-person individual and group counselling sessions. If you prefer not to or are unable to visit a counselling centre in person, we also offer online therapy services for LGBTQ individuals and their families.


Counseling Perspective at Raffles Place

9 Raffles Place

#17-25 Republic Plaza II

Singapore 048619

Counseling Perspective at Oasis

87 Science Park Drive

#03-01 The Oasis

Singapore 118260

Counseling Perspective at Katong

12 East Coast Road

#03-01 i12 Katong

Singapore 428802

To make an appointment,

Call/WhatsApp us on +65 9853-7253, email us at admin@counselingperspective.com, or book online to get instant confirmation.

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